8 Signs Someone Has A Secret Crush On You
Are you wondering if you have a secret admirer?
Are they driving you crazy with possible signs that they like you,
but you just don’t know for sure?
Here are eight subtle signs that someone secretly has a crush on you.
1. They Act Differently Around You
Does this person act differently around you compared
to how they usually are with other people?
- Personality Shift: Perhaps they become more cheerful and talkative, or maybe quieter and reserved.
- The Cause: If someone starts acting differently around you, it could mean they feel flustered and are uncertain about how to behave around you.
- What to Watch: Pay close attention to how they usually act and compare it to how they are when they are with you.
2. They Try to Get Close to You
Do they seem to just like being around you,
even if they don’t have anything to say?
- Proximity: They just like being in close proximity and watching you from the corner of their eye.
- Creating Opportunities: Maybe they go out of their way just to see you or pretend to run into you, hoping to catch your attention and strike up a conversation. This is especially true if the person is shy and soft-spoken.
3. They Always Initiate Contact
Has this person ever asked you for your number
or followed you on social media?
Do they usually text you or call you up first,
even if they don’t have anything important to say?
- Desire to Communicate: By reaching out first, they are voicing a desire to communicate and keep in touch.
- Interest: They want to spend more time with you because they like you and find you fun and interesting to talk to.
4. You Catch Them Staring at You
Do they struggle to hold your gaze and quickly look away,
or do they let their gaze linger
and stare at you when they think you aren’t looking?
Both of these behaviors are signs of attraction.
They might have a crush on you but are too nervous
or embarrassed to tell you about their feelings.
5. They Smile at You a Lot
Do you notice them smiling at you more than others?
- Bashful Smile: It could be a bashful little smile showing that they are nervous but happy to see you.
- Wide Grin: Or, it could be a wide ear-to-ear grin conveying their excitement about being around you.
- Exclusivity: If they smile this way only when they see you, talk to you, or talk about you, it definitely means they feel attracted to you.
6. They Compliment You a Lot
Does it seem like this person is paying a lot of close attention to you?
Do they seem impressed by every little thing you do?
If they are dazzled by you and shower you with compliments,
this can be an easy indication that they are into you.
7. They Keep the Conversation Going
Here is a trick you can use to see
if someone is secretly crushing on you:
- The Test: When talking to them, subtly disengage by acting distracted (e.g., writing, packing up things, or talking to someone else).
- The Response: Gauge how they respond. While most people might politely leave the conversation, someone who has a crush on you will likely keep trying to engage with you. They are eager for your attention.
8. They Make Themselves Available for You
Do they say yes to everything you invite them to?
Do they cancel or reschedule appointments just to be with you?
This can mean that you are really important to this person,
and they want to prioritize their time with you.
It is a strong indicator that they care for you.
Summary
Have you noticed any of these signs from your secret admirer,
or are you the one showing all these signs unconsciously?
Paying attention to these subtle changes in behavior,
from initiating contact to lingering smiles—can help clarify
if someone is truly interested in you.
