How To Forgive Yourself

You want to know how to forgive yourself?

You have to forgive others. It is as simple as that.

You can chant, you can affirm, and you can tell yourself:

“Okay, I let go of all the horrible things I’ve done.

I forgive myself for the resentments I held towards others.

I forgive myself for all the bad things I did to others.

I love myself, I forgive myself, I free myself from the burden of guilt

and shame from past transgressions.”

You can do that all you want, and that can be very helpful, yes.

But really, the bottom line is that everything is a projection.

The Mirror of Projection

When we see “crap” in other people—no matter what they

are doing—if we don’t like it,

if we judge it as harsh, cruel, wrong, or bad,

we are judging ourselves.

We are condemning ourselves

because it is all a projection of the deeply embedded

guilt, shame, and self-loathing inside of ourselves.

How to Clear Self-Loathing

So, if you want to get rid of all this self-loathing,

you have to forgive your projections.

• Observe Others: Go around and look at other people and everything they are doing—good, bad, and ugly.
• Find a Way to Forgive: Find a way to give them the benefit of the doubt. Appreciate what they have gone through in their lives to get to the place where they did what they did.
• Unconditional Forgiveness: Forgive everyone unconditionally, without exception.

Convincing the Subconscious Mind

The more you do this, the more you send a message

to your subconscious mind that you are

worthy, good enough, and deserving of happiness, success,

and inner peace.

And it will happen.

Your mind—your subconscious—will be convinced

by right actions, generous actions, being of service to others,

and forgiving others.

The subconscious mind will “get it,”

and then it will create the peace that you want in your mind.

Summary

You will be free of all the debris of past

resentments, bitterness, fears, guilt, and shame.

You will be in the now, able to enjoy the now

with all that emotional baggage gone.

That is all you have to do: every day and in every way,

try to see the best in other people.

Try to forgive them, “for they know not what they do.”

You will find inner peace and joy, and guess what?

Greater prosperity, greater opportunities,

and greater happiness across the board.