Thoughts

Atomic Habits: Systems Over Goals Goals are just destinations. What truly transforms your life are the invisible, automatic routines—your systems. Willpower runs out, but habits run on…

For some people, sticking with things is not the issue. The real struggle is having too many things you want to stick with. You look at your…

People often say that relationships take work, making the idea of an effortless relationship hard to believe. However, it is entirely possible to have a dynamic that…

When asked to tell someone about yourself, the worst approach is to simply list facts like your name and job title. This method is as boring as…

Even for someone who is naturally frugal—driving an older car and avoiding designer clothes or flashy jewelry- there are certain things that are absolutely worth spending more…

Brainmaxxing is going to be the next movement that takes over the internet. Just like with physical improvement, if you don’t get ahead, you will be left…

We always talk about being single as if it were the absence of something—the chapter of your life where you are still waiting for the real stuff…

Strangely and rather awkwardly, it seems that no human being can ever really grow up sane unless they have been loved very deeply by somebody else for…

A taboo topic in society is speaking ill of our parents. Traumatic events regarding parents are often shushed with phrases like “they did the best they could”…

A huge part of being a gentleman is how you conduct yourself in social situations and in conversation. To be a good conversationalist, you need to ask…