6 Things you Should Never do Around a Woman you Like

The dynamic of attraction between men

and women is very complicated, especially

between you and the woman you like.

That’s where emotions enter the field and make things difficult.

Before a woman becomes your girlfriend,

there is a seductive game that happens where you must be

the one in control while she reacts to your moves.

I was very naive at first, thinking you could just be yourself around her

and things would work without effort.

In some situations, it works, but not always.

There are certain things you should never

do around the woman you like.

Here are the 6 Things You Should Never Do Around the Woman You Like:

1. Don’t Do Anything Extraordinary

Just because you like her doesn’t mean you should

go the extra mile to impress her.

Do simple things.

If she truly wants you, she will be impressed by who you are.

You don’t need to do anything extraordinary to prove yourself to her.

If she doesn’t want you, she will play hard to get

regardless of what you do.

You don’t have to use your money,

you don’t need to shower her with attention,

and you don’t need to act like a guy you are not.

Just be yourself, and things will fall into place.

We all know that trying too hard makes a man look needy,

and neediness is the trait women hate most in men.

2. Arguing With Her

Never argue with a woman.

You are free to debate with men since they operate more on rationality,

but never argue with a woman.

You need to understand that when a woman sees

that she can easily rattle you,

she will continue to do it again and again.

She loves the fact that she has that kind of power over you.

If you want to control the frame and keep her desire high,

don’t tolerate any form of argument.

Walk away, ignore her, or show her the door.

You are a man, and you should never let anyone rattle you.

3. Flirting With Other Women

The quickest way to turn off a girl you like is to purposely flirt

with other women in front of her.

Just because you want her to know other women want you

is no excuse to disrespect her by flirting

with them right in front of her face.

You can tease or be playful with other women around her,

but don’t flirt unless they start it, and even then,

you must participate with moderation.

4. Playing the Victim Card

Your life is hard as a man,

but this doesn’t mean you should complain about

your problems around her.

Don’t act weak. Don’t utter words that make you appear helpless.

Man up and deal with it, because that’s what men do.

We figure things out instead of feeling sorry for ourselves.

Things happen; sometimes it is bad, sometimes it is worse.

Deal with it anyway.

5. Letting Yourself Go

Just because you like her doesn’t mean you stop

improving yourself as a man.

Don’t make her the priority. Instead, make yourself the priority.

When you stop chasing your purpose to chase a woman,

you lose both.

Focus on yourself, and she will focus on you.

Many men lose themselves, their close friends,

and their allies chasing a girl who doesn’t like them.

There is no problem with being rejected by a girl;

the problem arises when you continue to chase her regardless

of the disrespect she puts you through.

6. Disrespecting Others to Look Cool

Just because you want to be a “ruthless”

or dominant guy that women want doesn’t mean

you should disrespect people to impress her.

Being rude to waiters, staff,

or random people doesn’t make you look strong;

it makes you look insecure.

True strength is controlled, not chaotic.

You lose others’ respect by putting your friends

or colleagues down just to look cool.