13 Rules For Men
We men, are the backbone of society.
We move nations, build infrastructure, set laws,
and execute difficult plans.
There is something beautiful about masculinity
that our current society is trying to bury.
Yes, it is beautiful to have ambition, work hard, dream big,
and stay consistent.
Without these qualities, there wouldn’t be skyscrapers,
breakthroughs in science, engineering, politics, or the military.
I am not against femininity; in fact, I deeply respect and value it.
Both qualities are important and serve their purpose,
but here I am talking about men only.
As a man, you can’t be a random person with no values and standards.
Here are the 13 Rules for Men:
1. Never Go Back To a Woman Who Cheated
She showed you exactly who she is.
You are not a backup plan, and you are not an option.
You are the prize.
Respect yourself enough to walk away and never look back.
No matter how long you have been together, if she cheated on you,
move on. If you forgive her, she will do it again.
Also, remember that this might not be the first time she cheated;
it is just the first time you caught her.
Have some self-respect.
2. Never Let a Woman Disrespect You
The moment you allow it, you lose your power.
Stand firm, demand respect, and don’t tolerate anything less.
You are a man of value, and she needs to know it.
Set the standard high or walk away without hesitation.
No matter how broke you are or how dire your situation is,
never let any disrespect slide.
As a man, you should maintain your position in the relationship
no matter what.
3. Never Shake a Hand Sitting Down
It is a sign of weakness and laziness.
Stand up, look them in the eye, and grip with strength.
Your handshake is your word; make sure it commands respect.
Always rise to the occasion; never slouch in the presence of others.
4. Never Go Broke to Impress Others
Only fools sacrifice their future for fleeting approval.
As a man, you should stick firmly to your priorities.
What really matters in your life should be your family, career, purpose,
and genuine bonds,
not showing others that you made it in life.
If you are addicted to attention from people who don’t really care
about you, you need to reexamine your life.
Real power comes from financial discipline and independence.
Let others chase vanity while you build wealth.
5. Never Eat the Last Piece of Something You Didn’t Buy
It is a matter of respect and self-control.
Leave it for the one who paid the price.
A real man knows when to take and when to step back.
Show restraint, show respect,
and never be the one who takes without giving.
This self-control proves you are not a slave to your desires
and emotions, which is an outstanding masculine trait.
6. Always Have the Ambition to Be Better
Complacency is the enemy of greatness.
You must have the insatiable hunger to become better as a person
and improve in many aspects of your life.
Every day is a chance to outdo the man you were yesterday.
Set goals, crush them, and then raise the bar.
Never settle, never stagnate—relentlessly pursue your own evolution.
You are not just the head of the house;
you are an inspiration to your kids and to the next generation.
That’s a responsibility.
7. Never Let Another Man Front You
Stand your ground and hold your position.
If you let someone take the lead in your own life, you have already lost.
Be the one who dictates the terms, not the one who follows.
Strength is earned by never backing down
or stepping aside unnecessarily.
There will always be problems and difficulties that will try to shrink you;
use them as tools to expand.
Never back down or accept defeat.
8. Take a 1-3 Second Pause Before Answering
It shows you are in control, not impulsive.
People who talk fast often display weakness.
A quick mind doesn’t mean a quick mouth.
Think, then speak with authority.
That pause commands respect and makes your words carry weight.
It also makes you formulate your thoughts better.
9. Exercise at Least 3x a Week
Your body is your temple,
and strength is the foundation of a powerful life.
No excuses, no shortcuts—just discipline and dedication.
You owe it to yourself to be in peak condition.
Exercising keeps you energetic and less stressed.
10. Don’t Beg for a Relationship
The moment you do, you have lost your value.
Real men don’t chase; they attract.
If she doesn’t see your worth, walk away with your head held high.
Never compromise your dignity for anyone.
Don’t take rejection personally.
If she says no, keep it simple and move on.
11. Your Handshake Should Be Firm
It is the first sign of strength, confidence, and respect.
A weak handshake signals a weak man.
Grip with purpose, look them in the eye,
and let them feel your presence.
Your handshake speaks before you do—make sure it says,
“I am in control.” Simple gestures say a lot about you.
12. Dress Well No Matter the Occasion
This is very important.
Your appearance is your first statement—make it count.
A sharp look commands respect and sets you apart.
Take your looks
and dress seriously if you want to be respected as a man.
Buy nice, quality clothes, and learn how to style them well.
Never be caught off guard;
strive to be the best-dressed man in the room.
Style is power; wear it like armor.
It shouldn’t take much of your time,
nor should you put all your energy into it,
but know that dressing well is important.
13. Learn to Defend Yourself
A man who can’t protect himself is at the mercy of the world.
Strength, skill, and confidence come from knowing
you can handle any situation.
Don’t rely on others for your safety—be your own first
and last line of defense.
You don’t want to be defeated in front of your kids or wife.
